follows the lives of six friends from their mid-20s to their mid-30s. Monica, Rachel, Phoebe, Chandler, Ross, and Joey remain in each other's lives through the ups and downs of adulthood. They find love, grow in their careers, and evolve as they become more mature and grounded.
had a total of 10 seasons, allowing audiences to watch their favorite characters live their lives and grow over a decade. Throughout the sitcom's 10-year run, the friends experience considerable growth, both individually and as a group. At the beginning of the series, fans see the six friends as young, directionless 20-somethings and watch them mature into the adults they say goodbye to at the end.
But, how old are the Friends characters at the beginning of the series?
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Updated on January 4, 2024, by Florencia Aberastury: This article has been updated to include more details about each of the friends in Friends
Rachel's age and birthday throughout the series are a little inconsistent. The most consistent birthday for Rachel is May 5th, which is mentioned several times throughout the series. However, other details and celebrations have mentioned Rachel's birthday in February.
In "The One Where They All Turn Thirty," which aired in 2001, Rachel turns 30, which would make her birth year 1971. Yet her 29th birthday is in 1999, as they organize her birthday party in "The One Where Rachel Smokes" from Season 5. This would put her age at around 23 or 24 at the beginning of the series.
However, Rachel is supposedly the same age as Monica, as the two were best friends in high school. Monica states she's 26 in an episode from 1995, which could mean Rachel was 24 in 1994 and 25 in 1995. Before the era of streaming and binge-watching, TV series didn't have as much consistency.
This is particularly true with sitcoms such as , where episodes were written without much regard for continuity or the friends' ages, and only as individual situations the friends in the group went through. However, it can also be possible that Rachel was purposefully lying about her age at some point, which would still be in character with Rachel's personality. The only thing fans can agree on is that Rachel was the youngest of the group.
Ross Geller is Monica's older brother and Rachel's main love interest throughout the series.
When fans first meet him, he's a somber and depressed man struggling through a recent divorce from his ex-wife Carol. There's really no mystery to Ross' age at the beginning of the series, as he clearly states in the very first episode of Friends that he is "26 and divorced."
As continued, most of his comments about his age and birthday are somewhat consistent with Ross being born in 1967. This lines up with other statements he makes, like when he says he's 29 in Season 3 when Chandler offers Ross chocolate milk. He states in "The One Where Emma Cries" that his birthday is October 18, and given the series begins in September 1994, when he's 26, that'd make Ross' birth year 1967.
However, Ross' age shows some inconsistencies as well, much like the rest of his friends' ages. When Gunther is making a list of birthdays to get Rachel's, Ross starts saying his birthday is in December before being cut off.
who is also obsessed with cleaning, a trait that actually drives Phoebe to move out of her apartment. Monica's apartment serves as the primary meeting place for the group, and Monica fills in the role of Mother Hen.
In the Pilot episode of , Rachel calls off her wedding and arrives at the coffee shop, where she runs into Monica and eventually stays with her at Monica's apartment. Rachel is Monica's high school friend, and the two are around the same age.
However, Monica's birthday is never officially stated in . Fans can deduce her age by clues given, and the fact that she's two years younger than Ross and went to school with Rachel. In "The One With The Ick Factor" where Monica is dating a younger man, it is revealed that she is 26 years old. The episode aired in May 1995, meaning at the beginning of the series, Monica would have been 25 years old.
But Monica's age is one of the most inconsistent of the characters' ages. In different episodes throughout Season 1, Monica is either 24, 25, or 26. Yet many fans agree that most likely, Monica was 25 at the beginning of the series.
Chandler Bing is Ross' best friend from college. Out of all the friends, Chandler's age and birthday are referenced the least throughout the series. There are only a few comments and clues about his birthday, however. In "The One Where Rachel Smokes," the group throws a surprise party a month early for Rachel, and she remarks that Chandler's birthday is before hers.
Many agree Rachel's birthday is on May 5th, so this would put Chandler's birthday sometime in April. However, this bit of information isn't really helpful considering Rachel's age fluctuates throughout the series.
In another episode, "The One With Unagi," Monica mentions that Chandler's birthday is in a month and a half. This episode takes place on February 24, putting Chandler's birthday again around early April. There aren't any real mentions regarding Chandler's actual age or birth year, but Chandler is friends with Ross and they both went to college together. This means that, most likely, Chandler was also 26 at the beginning of the series.
and roommate. Like the other friends' ages, Joey's age and birthday change throughout the series. Joey's age seems to change as the writers try to make it fit with the episode's narrative. Since came out before the era of streaming, trying to know for a fact how old the characters are at the beginning of the series involves a little bit of guesswork in a few cases.
In Season 1, in "The One With The Birth," Joey states that he is 25.
However, in the Season 2 episode, "The One Where Joey Moves Out," Joey states he is 28. Then, in "The One With Joey's Fridge" in the sixth season of the show, Joey mentions spring break 1981, and Monica states he was 13 at the time, which would put his birth year in 1968. That would make him 26 at the beginning of the series. In "The One With the Cake," Ross says that Joey will be 52 in 2020, when Emma turns 18. This supports the idea that Joey was born in 1968.
Phoebe Buffay is definitely the most interesting character among the six friends.
Her complicated childhood made her misremember some things about her life, and even her own age, which makes Phoebe's age one of the hardest to decipher among the characters' ages. Phoebe's wild stories, which she lets slip every so often, are shocking and sometimes heartbreaking, and they let fans figure out more about Phoebe's life.
In "The One With Frank, Jr.," fans learn that Phoebe's birthday is February 16. In "The One Where They All Turn Thirty," Phoebe's twin sister Ursula tells her they are 31, not 30 as Phoebe thought. In the episode "The One With The Jellyfish" from Season 4 that aired in 1997, Phoebe mentions she's 29.
This would make her around 26 or 27 at the beginning of the series. In "The One with the Mugging," it is implied that she was older than Ross when she was living in the street and accidentally mugged Ross. This would make Phoebe the oldest of the group.
